I got in a fight with my [friend/lover/mother/boss]. [She/he] grilled me about the deficiencies of others and my own enablement. I did not bow out and leave the pecking to its principals. Therefore, I got in a fight with myself.
It’s not good versus evil, what I want versus what I don’t. Maybe wise versus willful. Patience is readiness. Listening is the truth, mainly tacitly, as it turns out.